back in blogland

I havent blogged in a while. Not due the lack of ideas or thoughts. Just the unavailability of time. The main load of work has subsided now.......still have a few loose ends left to tie before the vacation can take place. I'll get it done somehow.
I wonder how my buddy is doing with the divorce proceedings. There has been less communication between us lately (I also blame it on my workload but he should take part of the blame on the lack of communications too.) Sometimes he repeats stories or views on the ex. I suppose most divorces go through the same route......I just hope this one doesnt stay too long at this phase. One can empathise or sympathise but its healthier if the parties to the divorce just totally let each other go, dont rehash their disagreements in their minds, dont blame the other for all the love gone wrong, or wishing that one had left years ago. Just say your goodbyes, move on, live new adventures, go on with life.
I need a vacation as of right this minute. My back hurts from all the reading and computer work that the past three weeks has set upon me. I need a relaxing back massage. I need lots of fresh air. I need to not see work for a bit. I need to have an adventure or two. I need to eat a tri tip roast. I need to lick some chocolate chip dough Ben and Jerry's ice cream. I need to be taken care of. Yup, lots of caring and loving would help too.
Maybe I'll just start by getting a good night's sleep tonight.