Once I used to wonder why people who had fallen in love, gotten married because of the love could one day hate each other enough to divorce, fight over property and kids, and then turn to bitter enemies.
It just did not make sense to me.
Don't they remember what it was that led them to fall in love?
Surely people do not change so much that they become total strangers.
Now God is giving me a chance to find out first hand.
I am being given a front seat view watching my brother's marriage fall apart after 7 years.
Yes it is possible to change drastically into another character.
Yes it is possible for someone to play act a role of being someone else for years until one day u find that u cannot hide ur true self.
Yes people with bipolar personalities do exist.
Yes a person can keep lying for years before being discovered.
It is a good thing that we believe in God.
Whatever a person does, He is the final judge.
U dont have to wreck ur life to solve ur situation.
The indians call it Karma.
It will come back to u.
Maybe not right now but there will be the time.
Life goes on.
It may be painful now but there will be joy ahead.
It just did not make sense to me.
Don't they remember what it was that led them to fall in love?
Surely people do not change so much that they become total strangers.
Now God is giving me a chance to find out first hand.
I am being given a front seat view watching my brother's marriage fall apart after 7 years.
Yes it is possible to change drastically into another character.
Yes it is possible for someone to play act a role of being someone else for years until one day u find that u cannot hide ur true self.
Yes people with bipolar personalities do exist.
Yes a person can keep lying for years before being discovered.
It is a good thing that we believe in God.
Whatever a person does, He is the final judge.
U dont have to wreck ur life to solve ur situation.
The indians call it Karma.
It will come back to u.
Maybe not right now but there will be the time.
Life goes on.
It may be painful now but there will be joy ahead.
posted by akumangkok at
6:45 PM
1 Comments:
this is really too sad june...i had thought that things had been going fine with your brother and this really is not good.
i don't understand it either how people can fall out of love and especially when there are children involved that they can't at least try.
my brother, gary went though the same thing when his wife left him, taking the three babies with her. the two older ones ones wanted to stay with their dad.
in their case years later although they never got back together again, at least gary and debbie are friends...
i will be thinking of you june and your mom and brother and your two nieces...love terry
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