Thursday, December 15, 2005

where I want to be

Yup....at last on vacation and having some opportunity to blog. I am with the 'other side of my life'.... where I have no work worries, no family obligations, nothing. Just me to care for.
O yeah, I do have my buddy with me.
We had a great weekend at the beach. Water at the wharf. A visit to a butterfly farm. Trying to get to another National Park Reserve that somehow seemed abandoned. Walking along a trail that that was so steep that you almost fall off going down and break your back walking up.
I love the food here. Barbeque sauces to die for.
Saw the movie 'Just Friends'. It was funny and sweet. I remember that I had read a book of the same title but the story content was different. Maybe my life story might be titled the same. Somehow I dont think so. Lots of things going on. Fun time is HERE!

Friday, December 09, 2005

at last!

Life is about to begin. Vacation time at last! Hope I get access to the internet along the way. Need to continue blogging so that I can capture the feelings. The fun has begun!

Friday, December 02, 2005

back in blogland

I havent blogged in a while. Not due the lack of ideas or thoughts. Just the unavailability of time. The main load of work has subsided now.......still have a few loose ends left to tie before the vacation can take place. I'll get it done somehow.
I wonder how my buddy is doing with the divorce proceedings. There has been less communication between us lately (I also blame it on my workload but he should take part of the blame on the lack of communications too.) Sometimes he repeats stories or views on the ex. I suppose most divorces go through the same route......I just hope this one doesnt stay too long at this phase. One can empathise or sympathise but its healthier if the parties to the divorce just totally let each other go, dont rehash their disagreements in their minds, dont blame the other for all the love gone wrong, or wishing that one had left years ago. Just say your goodbyes, move on, live new adventures, go on with life.
I need a vacation as of right this minute. My back hurts from all the reading and computer work that the past three weeks has set upon me. I need a relaxing back massage. I need lots of fresh air. I need to not see work for a bit. I need to have an adventure or two. I need to eat a tri tip roast. I need to lick some chocolate chip dough Ben and Jerry's ice cream. I need to be taken care of. Yup, lots of caring and loving would help too.
Maybe I'll just start by getting a good night's sleep tonight.