Cry as u resolve.

I like Face-book because it is inter-active.
U get almost immediate response to whatever u put up there.
U can get people to just state they like what u wrote.
In fact, u can say u like what u wrote if u so wish.
U can put up pictures and links and really bring people into ur life.

FB however, does not allow u to write to ur heart's content.
They limit the number of characters u can write on ur status.
So u cannot really express in words all that u feel.

I still need this blog to sometimes cry out my thoughts and feelings.

Today is 1 January 2011.
I wrote on my FB about not having any new year's resolutions this time.
Just wanting to 'clean-up' my life....and move forwards.
So easy to say. So hard to live up to.

I have had tears over what I might have to let go.
Not any material items. I do not cry over those.

Some ties are easy to let go off.
U meet people u initially thought were good for enriching ur life and then in a couple of weeks u see sides of them that do not do so.
Those u can easily say goodbye to.

Some have been around for too long.
U just hang in there maybe because u remember the good earlier days and think they may come again.
Some times there are good spots in the relationship so u continue to hang on.

Some people u give excuses for.
Maybe its because u do or did love them.
But u need to look hard into the relationship.

When some one doesn't love u the way u deserve to be loved, u need to let go.
If it is so hard for him to say he loves u without choking or trying to hide it, or saying it cos u say it so he has to say it ...... u know u have to let go.
U have held on for long enough.
Move on.

Respect is an important part of loving.
U have to understand what is important to the life, culture, religion, community of the person u love.
The moment u forget, then that means u have forgotten an important part of the loving.
Or maybe it means u have stopped ur part of the loving.

So, clean up ur life.
This is a good time to do so.
Its OK to cry as u do it.
Its OK to cry.